I know this is a little late but I have been thinking of what I would like to do this year. From the looks of this list it’s going to be a busy year. I am not big on bucket lists or New Year resolutions but there are definitely some things I would like to do this year.
· Spoil my granddaughter. My granddaughter Taylor is amazing. She will be 5 in April which is so hard to believe. I really look forward to spending a lot of time with her this next year. Watching Taylor grow is just confirmation of what a wonderful mother my daughter is and how blessed I am.
· Be a better father, son, brother, uncle, nephew, cousin, and friend. I don’t know what else to add but to say my commitment to the above statement is solid. I appreciate all the people in my life and I hope that they know it. I really have leaned on a lot of people this last year and am very grateful.
· Run in a 5K with my daughter Jenny. Believe it or not I was once a runner and ever since I watched her run her first marathon I have wanted to run a race with her.
· Visit my daughter Sara in Colorado as often as I can. I still can’t believe my baby is now a freshman in college.
· Visit my son in Alaska. I am really looking forward to this trip. All those frequent flier miles will come in handy.
· Work with my fellow melanoma warriors to make this coming May the loudest Melanoma Awareness month ever. Friends we have some work to do.
· Have a beer with Rich on one of my trips to Colorado. Rich is the author of one of my favorite blogs ( http://hotelmelanoma.blogspot.com ) and is a fellow Dylan fan. I have gotten a ton of entertainment from his blog during a very difficult year and think I owe him a cold one.
· See multiple Royals, Chiefs, and Jayhawks games this year. I haven’t seen a Royals or Chiefs game in two years and only two Jayhawk sporting events. Todd I swear we will catch a Royals game this summer.
· Be a regular at BB’s, Jardines if they open again, Knuckleheads, and The Blue Room this year. Great spots for live music.
· Start dating again. Somebody who enjoys the above activities would be nice. All kidding aside this is very complicated now.
· Enjoy the great outdoors
· I have spent so much of the last two years afraid of the sun. I miss being outside and feeling the sun on my face. Just have to be much smarter about it now than I was. A hat, sunscreen, UV protective clothing….. No need to hide, just have to be smart.
· Put 2,000 miles on my bike this summer. Would love to do RAGBRAI (http://ragbrai.com/) but it’s probably not possible due to other summer plans.
· Take a dip in Baker Lake in New Brunswick, CA. I would love to visit with my Uncle Bobby and his wife Collette with my mom this summer. Great people I don’t get to see nearly enough.
· I will not complain about my post interferon curly hair. I thought I was going to be bald at one point but my hair came back thicker and with a lot of curl. I sure wish mullets were still in, I could have an awesome one.
· Participate in a fundraiser for AIM and LIvestrong. Both of these organizations were great to me in my hour of need. I would love to give back however I can.
· Throw my support behind any effort to ban tanning beds for minors in my state. I had a couple of meetings with Representative Gary Cross and I think there will be more to come on this. Samantha Guild has been putting me through tanning bed school. Where I was once just an angry anti tanning bed guy I am not an educated angry anti tanning bed guy. Seriously if you want to find out what is going on in your state or get involved in starting something she should be your first call.
What I want to do this year more than anything else is just live my life and enjoy every day. On December 30th after a 14 hour day at the office I came home and saw on a fellow bloggers Facebook page that a fellow warrior and blogger Randis (http://randisohnomelanoma.blogspot.com/) journey had come to an end and she had been called home to meet her maker. I was shocked and saddened by this news. I did not know Randi well, we followed each other’s blogs and sent each other a few messages but I felt like somebody had just punched me in the gut when I read the news. To be honest it scared the hell out of me. Her experience is my nightmare. Cancer free for over 5 years before it returned this April and she was gone before the end of December. Unfortunately that is not an unusual story. As I lay in bed that evening I was thinking of her family and how they must be feeling and fearing it would be my family some day. The more I thought about it the more I realized that my fate is in my hands only to a certain extent. If I live 100 more years or 1 more year I just want to be able to look back to this point in time and not have any regrets. None of us know when our journey will come to an end. I am not ready to go and cash in the 401K and quit my job but I do want to enjoy life more than I have these last couple of years. I expect to be here for many years but none of us know for sure. For those of you who are still reading this long post I say thank you. Sometimes I blog to tell people how I am doing or to try and educate or inform people on an issue, other times I blog to just get something off my chest. This is one of those posts I guess. Happy New Year and let’s have a toast to a year with no regrets
Paul